Hey don't be to hard on yourself. I started this paralegal program during Christmas Break at Penn State and really haven't touched a lesson since January when classes started back up. I am taking 13 hours at Penn State, work full time, have a family, and have at least an hour drive everyday at work.
The time will come and you will get the studies done. One thing that helps me a lot is to print out the lessons. Also, work knows that I go to school and I am allowed to study during breaks and during my lunch hour. Then my family knows that my studies come first and that I will have to miss family functions; at the same time I try to set time aside to spend time with the family.
So I help this some and encourages you that your not the only one going through the same struggles.